Sunday, June 15, 2008

Sangolqui was Bust

Sangolqui is a market town located about 15 kilometers from Quito. We went there today (Sunday) with the hope of satiating the shopping bug that has taken hold of Rebecca since her mother arrived in town. But, the market was a general produce market (which I would have known if I could only remember what I read). So, all we were able to buy was some strawberries (for a buck), four papayas (also a buck), fifteen tangerines (a buck), a dozen tomatoes (a buck) and a pineapple (I think that was a buck too). If I was hell-bent on spending cash, even I wouldn't consider that a very satisfying shopping day.

Here is a picture of Opa wondering if just one bag of garlic will be enough.



And a picture of PoPo in her version of heaven, hundreds of dead stinky fish on a table.



And here is a picture of Maya picking out dinner. Yes, those are cuy in the near basket. And no, they aren't there to be brought home and made into pets.

Anyway, to add to our general disappointment with the shopping scene, two bad things happened while we were there.

The first bad thing that happened is that Rebecca had her wallet stolen. While we were chowing down on fried fish in a crowded market stall, someone slashed her purse without her knowing, reached in and took her wallet (which contained our credit card, ATM card, and her drivers license) and the case for our camera. Fortunately, the camera was in another pocket in her purse and not in its case, so we still have it - as evidenced by this photo that we took immediately after she tried to pay for our lunch and realized someone had been snooping in her purse. You can see the gash in the side of the bag. Opa was perplexed that such a thing could happen. And yes, Rebecca did call him in the morning to see if he was going to wear his blue striped shirt.

We had been warned about the slash and grab technique as far back as India - which we visited in 1998. Not only are pickpockets a concern in crowded places, but one must be cognizant of the slash and grab. In a slash and grab, someone will cut a purse or backpack with a razor, grab whatever valuables fall out, and take off. In this case, the slash was only just large enough for a hand to reach in, and a small hand at that. I couldn't get my hand in the slash that was cut. So, we wondered if a child was in cahoots with whomever did the slashing. Or even if a child was the sole culprit.

Her purse was slung over her head and shoulder but laying to her back side as she ate. Afterwards, Rebecca said that she felt tugging on her purse at one point while she was eating, moved the purse to her front but then felt she was being an overcautious gringo.

We think that she only had $11 bucks in her wallet (which begs the question - was she serious about doing serious shopping today?). We called the credit card company as soon as we got back to the apartment and no charges had been made. Which isn't surprising. Every time I use the credit card the clerk asks for ID and really looks at it. That's quite a novelty from the custom in the States.

We also checked the account from which our ATM funds are withdrawn, and the only one depleting it is us. Here are some picture of us on the bus back to Quito. Maya wasn't interested in having her picture taken.




Our new cards should be here this coming week. It's a hassle, but not the end of the world. I'm pretty sure Rebecca is most upset that 1) the wallet (more of a change purse) that was stolen was one that she really liked that she got in Thailand and 2) her purse is ruined. On the bright side, it gives her an excuse to be in the market for a new purse.

Maya was asking questions about why someone would slash Mommy's purse and steal what was in there. Rebecca told her that some people do things that are bad for other people. Sometimes, people do bad things for evil reasons, and sometimes they do them out of necessity. Maya has seen the kids her age and younger working sales of trivial objects at intersections. She knows that it is a hard life for some people here in Ecuador.

Even at my advanced age, it was kind of surreal to see the slashed purse and understand what happened. But, when I think about it in context, I can see why we should have been more careful in Sangolqui not to let this happen. It was a local produce market. Local people come here to buy their sustenance for the week. Besides us, I don't recall seeing one gringo in Sangolqui today. It was nearly the exact opposite of the market in Otavalo, which had elements of local necessity, but was primarily geared towards tourists. So, in Sangolqui, there is no consequence to the overall reputation of the market among tourists. If you slash and steal from enough tourists, word will spread and they won't come back. But so what? We spent about five bucks there today. However, in Otavalo, protection of the reputation of the market is paramount. They can't afford too many thefts because they need tourists to come and feel safe. In that case, there is no need to slash and steal from us because we will buy the stuff that is for sale. So, we are less likely to have our stuff stolen in Otavalo, even though we may be careless, than we are in Sangolqui. Maybe that theory is all BS, and we just were in the wrong place at the wrong time. But it's one way to think about it. And, I'm sure we will all be more careful, wherever we are, in the future.

The other bad news we got when we returned to the apartment. PoPo's mom, Rebecca's grandmother, died in Hong Kong. Sci-PoPo (Maya and Jonah's great-grandmother) was ailing, and her death at this time is not a complete surprise, but just this morning, PoPo got a report from her brother that Sci-PoPo was maintaining at the level of health that she was at. That was good news. So the news was somewhat shocking, and of course, whenever anyone loses a dearly loved one, heartbreaking.

I met Sci-PoPo in November 2000 when Rebecca and I had the Hong Kong version of our wedding. She was 90 and robust at the time. Unfortunately, I don't have any pictures on the computer to post from October 2003, when Maya went to Hong Kong to meet Sci-PoPo and put the finishing touches on walking. Though, I know we have actual pictures of the two of them together. We must only have had a 35 mm camera at that time. We are sorry that Jonah never got to meet Sci-PoPo. The report is that she died peacefully in her sleep, at the ripe age of 96, so we are thankful for that.

To add to the feeling of gloom, we will be missing PoPo and Opa when they fly to Hong Kong for the funeral in a few days. Not sure how long they will be gone, but they have promised that they will return to Ecuador for the remainder of their scheduled visit. That's a bright spot.

9 comments:

eliasinlondon said...

I'm so sorry to hear about Rebecca's grandmother dying. I'm thankful that it was peaceful. Please tell your mother I am thinking of her.
Sorry also to hear of the slash story. That is new to me. Glad everything is easily recoverable, even though it's a hassel.
So interesting to see that you have coolish moist weather like we do.

Anonymous said...

Wow that was a mouthful. Sorry for the families loss.
I think to make Rebecca feel better you should take her to the tourist market like RIGHT NOW!!!! Shopping always makes a gal feel better, especially when you are shopping for other people.......hint hint. Just kidding
Christine

Anonymous said...

please relay our condolences to Kwan and the family. No matter how old it's hard to loose your mom,someone once said a mom is your connection to the world. I do have a picture of her at the wedding.Well your sunday was one of your memmorable days so far, I'm just glad it was only a purse that was damaged and not a person. I too have had to cancel credit cards when it was stolen or left behind, can be fixed. I'm sure you will all miss Kwan and Steve but life ,one can always rely on curves from time to time, that's lofe. Stay safe love you mom

Bronwyn said...

My condolences to your family. Rebecca's grandmother had a nice, long, life.

...and on a different note, I once caught a Frenchman stealing my credit card from my purse in Nice. I grabbed my card, slapped him across the face, and started yelling "Thief! Thief!"....and everyone in the outdoor cafe paused, briefly looked up from their meals...and then went back to their eating and conversation.

Paul said...

nice presence of mind to slap him across the face. I bet that felt good.

GJ said...

Sorry for your loss. It always amazes me how you can have an entire month of relative inactivity and then bam! everything hits at once. I second Jim's comment (from the next day's blog) and like to think that our loved ones are still with us...just in a different way.

Your story of theft made me think of our recent trip to Fiji. We were in a secluded part of the Island and were approached by a young man who asked us for 'help'. I asked him what kind of help he was looking for and he said he needed $20 for the ferry back to Suva. When asked how much he had in his pocket he said $50. Confused I pushed on 'So what kind of help do you need?' We haggled for a minute and then I gave him $10 but he was trying to look in my wallet and then followed us out of the bushes. When we arrived at the road he had a cane knife in his hand (everyone in Fiji has them...they're like cell phones in the US) but we still were uncomfortable being followed by a strong young guy that had just asked for money who was carrying a huge knife. So when we got back to the resort we mentioned the incident to the owner. It just so happens that our cook was also the head of the tourism bureau of the local police. She had a police officer come by and take a report! After identifying him from the video he asked us to take of him running through the waterfall (everyone knows everyone there) the police officer went to reprimand him and tell him not to lie and not to ask tourists for money.

What a country! I can't imagine a police officer in LA reprimanding someone for lying or asking for money.

Paul said...

Just a few days ago Opa and PoPo had mustard squirted on them by a couple of guys in the street here in Quito. The guys tried to convince Opa and PoPo that the mess came from the sky. Then they tried to get close enough to help clean Opa and PoPo off. Of course, as they got close, they tried to take the wallet from Opa's back pocket. A crazy plot. Makes you wonder if they just thought it up on the spot, or if they've been successful using it before.

We run into folks asking us for money all the time in Alexandria. $5 for gas is a popular one, but I have been hit with some pretty elaborate stuff. Contributions to send a youth league basketball team to FLA for a tourney, my friends left me here and I have no way to get home, i just got released from prison and need money to buy meds for my bi-polar disorder, etc, etc. Rebecca once ended up giving ten bucks to some gal who was friends with some guy who died on the street. The gal said the money was for a flower arrangement for the family and had gone so far as to buy a card (Rebecca was the first to sign it of course).

Zoe said...

Interesting. Neil and I give money to people who ask us for it a lot (especially Neil), more when we're in the city. Whether it's because they need food, a flower arrangement or a fix doesn't really matter to us because we figure folks need what they need and who are we to judge or try to tell them what WE think they need? The problem as I see it is how to help and support disenfranchised people without patronizing them and without putting them in a position where they have to lie, steal and scam. My cousin, who lives in NYC, recently took a woman who was hungry out to lunch and spent the afternoon with her. While it can be argued that giving someone ten bucks or buying them lunch doesn't do anything to solve the enormous inequities in our world, there is something to be said for caring about another human being and letting them know that you see them; that they are not invisible.

Someone I know recently called petty thefts creative reapportionment.

Anonymous said...

Hello
I am sorry for your loss. I also want to comment on your experience in Sangolqui.

Sangolqui is a beautiful, beautiful town. In terms of shopping, if you wanted to get clothing, indeed Otavalo is your place to go. But you donot have to go that far to go get shopping, you have gone to Quito al El Ejido plaza and they all all kinds of clothing and nick nacs and silver jewelry.

I am very sorr for your stolen wallet. And no, is NOT that we do not care that people get robbed, we do and do care. But you have to be careful with pickpockets. It is a big dissapointment, I know. I myself got robbed in the train station in Geneva, Switzerland. Do I think that Genevas do not care, no, it was simply that I was not careful enough!!!

There are many places to visit in Sangolqui starting with the main plaza and the church. But what is the best is the food. And not everyone eats the guinea pigs either. It is a delicatten but not everyone eats them or like them so you do not have to generalize. Now the foood, the food, that is what makes Sangolqui different. On Sundays, you can eat the most delicious over baked pork. Peaple come from all over the country to eat this. Did you eat this? And the market refers indeed to the produce market and all kinds of fruits and vegetables. On Sundays, you will also find some home made bread baked on brick over, delicious!

So it appears that your expectations were high on shopping but Sangolqui perhaps is not known for the shopping but it is known for the food and people from Quito come every weekend just to taste the baked over pork (hornado) with fried potato patties, yammy!

Again, I am very sorry that your wallet got stolen. But please do not say that that people from Sangolqui do not care, they do.

This is a town where more and more tourists are coming now and there is a lot of business here.

I know I cannot change your opinion but I hope the readers do not get turn off on going to Sangolqui.